
Girls not caring and experiencing sexuality in pre-teens?
What do you think about this? Girls at younger ages are basically doing sex or oral sex without any thoughts about it? They basically want to be like guys, no emotions involved, no strings attached.. when in reality, admitted or not, most are emotionally connected.
Thoughts?
I've got to answer considering your black and white approach.
There are two possible reasons women will want to get emotionally involved with their partners 1) biology 2) social upbringing. There is a bit of both. However, how much there is of each is something that isn't clear. We all assume 90% due to 2) and 10% due to 1). But in reality, we've no idea. The same goes for any taboo subject, like homosexuality before 1950, wife beating and pedophilia.
The younger generation today (less so in the past) are uniquely placed to talk and do what they damn well please. Rather than giggle unprotected behind the bike shed, and feel ashamed afterwards, modern girls just (get a condom hopefully, and) get on with it. And I approve, there is little to be ashamed of wanting sex. Inhibiting yourself out of social dictum simply puts off the inevitable for no real reason whatsoever.
And who are you to determine if they are 'emotionally attached' to some boy? As I say, this is a matter of social convention. Stop putting your social convention on those who don't care for your social conventions.
As long as babies don't get involved, I have no problems with two 12yo's.
Bob
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